However we feel about fantasies, it is clear that sex is not, for most of us, just a rubbing together of bodies, but involves our minds … We take our minds with us into each sexual encounter.(Sheila Kitzinger)
Orgasm is often portrayed as solely a physical response due to a narrow focus on biological processes and physical sensations. However, human sexuality is far more complex and nuanced than mere physical stimulation. Sheila Kitzinger's observation highlights the crucial role of the mind in sexual experiences. Our thoughts, emotions, desires, and fantasies profoundly influence our sexual encounters.
Research has shown that psychological factors such as arousal, desire, intimacy, trust, and emotional connection play a significant role in sexual satisfaction and orgasm. Fantasies, imagination, and mental engagement can enhance sexual pleasure and deepen intimacy between partners.
Furthermore, cultural and societal norms, personal beliefs, past experiences, and relationship dynamics all shape our sexual experiences and responses. Ignoring the psychological aspects of sexuality overlooks the rich tapestry of human desire and connection.
By recognizing the importance of both physical and psychological factors in sexual experiences, we can cultivate a more holistic understanding of human sexuality and promote sexual health and well-being.
Thanks Sandeep for commenting. I have concluded that male arousal seems to be automatic especially with a lover. So it has been assumed that women are similarly aroused. But this is an assumption that leads to unrealistic expectations for female orgasm. Masters & Johnson ignored the psychological aspects of sexual response in their research that has formed the basis for all subsequent research into female sexual response.