I had been trying acid amine coupling of a long carbon chain carboxylic acid with urea, I couldn't get the desired product by using EDC, DMAP and HOBt. TLC shows 2 spots, I had been isolating the lower spot considering it as my product but NMR data confirmed that it is not the product but something else. Most of the literature suggests acylation of acid followed by addition of amine. Why it is more suitable method?