Men’s assumption that they are entitled to define female sexuality astounds me. Even though other women are silent on every aspect of sexual response, my first-hand account is ignored. Despite having neither a vagina nor a clitoris, men are confident to assert when (but not how) female orgasm occurs. As someone who has both organs, I have the task of explaining to men (and apparently to women as well) how these organs respond (in the case of the clitoris) or not (in the case of the vagina).