Women display themselves to attract male attention so that they can choose the man they want. This is a passive behaviour because a woman has to wait for a man to approach her. This is because male arousal is crucial to a man's desire for intercourse, which is his motivation for making a sexual advance. Women are looking for platonic admiration. They are insulted if a man refers to his sexual urges. Women tend to interpret male sex drive in terms of romantic passion as a sign of male devotion, which of course is not always the case. Hence why dating exists to allow a woman to assess a man's motives beyond a one-off opportunity for intercourse. Women want to be sexually desirable to men because of the rewards that men offer. They do not have a sex drive to be penetrated because of the risks involved.