By asking: “do you orgasm with a lover?”, researchers give women two options. If they say “yes”, they are categorised as sexually “normal”. If they say “no”, they are categorised as sexually “dysfunctional”. In the wake of Kinsey and Hite’s work demonstrating the responsiveness of the clitoris in women’s masturbation techniques, therapists suggest that women should orgasm through cunnilingus or masturbation with a lover. But there is no research that indicates that women orgasm in these ways.