When I first had sex, I told my boyfriend that I felt no sensation from intercourse. He replied that other virgins had made the same comment. More importantly I had felt zero erotic arousal. Yet masturbation had always worked. So I decided to ask other women about these porno orgasms that men believe women should have. I have not found a single woman who can explain them. Some female sexologists helpfully refer me to a book. But they all refuse to discuss the topic. Is sexology truly a science?