I think, patriarcal pressure and expectations are still not refused. As well man having issues with their own performance try to make an exclusive right of talking about sexuality. This is happening because of emancipation which is causing a bigger patriarcal response than what we even expected.

Women obtain substantial rewards from men for offering regular intercourse - love, affection, support and money. This is at the root of the sexual politics between men and women. Men want sex and women want other relationship rewards. Men don't want to feel that they owe women anything when it comes to sex even though they always pay directly or indirectly for sex. So no one wants transparency or honesty when it comes to sex. Men have to believe that women want it as much as men do. No woman will admit that sex means little to her. Sex is purely an indication that a man might love her.