I can't find a solvent to extract my product from DMSO? I used a lot of solvent, the problem is that the solvent is miscible with DMSO or my product is not soluble in this solvent.
If your product is not soluble in a solvent that is miscible with DMSO, the addition of this solvent in the system probably will precipitate your product (not mentioned in your question). then you can filtrate and re-dissolve your product.
Try to evaporate DMSO and redisolve the compound in other solvent. If you cannot do that and need to extract the compound try with diethylether if you didn't.
The problem is that i can't evaoprate DMSO because my product is not stable thermally (at the boiling point of DMSO 189°C), and for the extraction with diethylether, my product is more soluble in DMSO than in diethyether so my product prefers DMSO phase than phase diethyl ether.
Cannot you try to evaporate under vacuum, thus lowering the temperature? Otherwise you could try to recover by SPE or similar. I send you some links that could be useful for your aim:
Add the mixture to water and extract with a suitable solvent. Dry the organic phase and evaporate the solvent. You will still have DMSO with your product. Then column chromatograph on silicagel. Use nonpolar solvent mixture. DMSO will remain in the column.
Add the rxn mixture to water, cool to 20 - 25 °C then add toluene to the RM, after extracting in toluene wash with 10% sodium chloride soln. (DMSO is immiscible with Toluene).
The usual way is, to avoid DMSO as solvent. Because DMSO solves nearly every solvent you can try to remove DMSO e.g. in high vacuo and resolve your sample in the desired solvent.