In one of my old labs we used a compressed paper as the membrane/ frit at the edge of the electrode. If you did it right the electrode was good for almost a year
We utilize a polimeric battery separator at last 15 years . In the past we sinterized frits with caolin . A paste of caolin was filled inside a small glass tube and this tube was fired to sintherize the caolin. The control to know if the material was adequatelly syntherized was adapt this tube in a syringe and press air trough the syntherized. If a lot of air comes out, it is necessary to submit a new syntherization. If any air comes out, than the extremity must be sanded till found some way to pass a very small amount of electrolyte.
The main characteristic of a frit is maintain the electrical contact, with minimum leakage of electrolyte. In a reference electrode, the amount of current that pass through this membrane is really small, and so the resistance is not a determinant factor. In this way, a minimum porosity to establish the electrical contact is sufficient. The smaller the pores of the frit, the miminum contamination of the analysed solution and also the internal solution.