I wonder how emotional memory (recall of emotionally arousing experiences and their effects on self and others) play out in BPD? The reason I’m asking this is because I have noticed how individuals diagnosed with BPD have a difficulty regulating their emotions and how emotional dysregulation may be linked with increase in memory recall as well as lack in memory recall. Emotional dysregulation appears to happen briefly and very intensely and/or intensely and over a long period of time. After these episodes, patients tend to react in two ways: Either feeling overly guilty about what happened (excessive ruminating, feeling guilty, and remembering the experiences to the finest detail) or not being able to fully recall what happened or how they felt (lack of memory and/or skewed perception). Why does these reactions occur in some and not in others?