A woman… wants more intimacy, comprising affection, commitment, and respect for individual identity… Although she knows he wants sex, she is frustrated because this seems to be the only form of intimacy he is interested in with her. (Kramer & Dunaway)
The cited authors have definitely written an important book (Why Men Don't Get Enough Sex and Women Don't Get Enough Love):
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Love is our response to our highest values—and can be nothing else.
Sex is one of the most important aspects of man’s life and, therefore, must never be approached lightly or casually. A sexual relationship is proper only on the ground of the highest values one can find in a human being. Sex must not be anything other than a response to values.
Playboy Interview: Ayn Rand Playboy, March 1964
Tolstoy: If a woman wants to be his friend she must first be his lover.
Hate is a strong word. Certainly women like men who support and protect men. In the past, this male protection was necessary.
I think men have platonic friendships with women, perhaps not those they are attracted to. If a man is rejected by a woman, he is unlikely to befriend her.
It is interesting that women talk of love and lovemaking. Men usually talk about sex. This is a key difference between the sexes. Women hope for affection and loving companionship. In return they have to provide intercourse if they want a man to remain committed to the relationship. Women offer sex for emotional bonding reasons.
If you are talking from personal experience, please could you explain the erotic turn-ons, the precise anatomy and the stimulation technique involved in a woman achieving orgasm? You are talking about erotic fiction. I present the research findings that indicate that women do not orgasm nearly as often as men do. Women refer to emotional (non-erotic) rewards with a lover. Few women want sex outside a loving relationship.
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What does a woman want? To be loved. Not for her cooking or her writing: for herself.
Madeleine Chapsal
Thanks for your answer. We all want to be loved but in different ways. A man experiences sexual love. A woman wants platonic, caring love. She does not want to be purely a sexual object, a focus for male lust and a man's preferred depositary for semen. The sexes struggle to understand each other because of the huge difference in sexual responsiveness.
A woman looks for love, care, attention, admiration, compatibility, etc
In another angle, a woman desires a man or a lover who is honest, God fearing, transparent, financially capable, very intelligent, dedicated to his responsibility, whom she can comfortably depend on for the rest of her live.
Agreed Chuck! Women want a man who will be committed to them and willing to support them throughout the long years of child-raising. This involves a woman needing to offer regular intercourse to keep him tied into the relationship rather than needing to go elsewhere for his sexual outlet.