A parent must guard his or her vocabulary. There are some words that people should never say to each other in a family. Words such as stupid, dump, idiot.....? What are words that people should never say to each other in a family?
Words are one of most underrated and yet significant factor shaping the mindset of the children. The mind of a child is like a empty paper, which gets filled by the words spoken by his/her parents or in external environment. It is hence any word may it be foul or harsh can act as a destroyer of character in the child.
The words mentioned in question must not be used anywhere, family, work,......not anywhere.
All the negative words should not be said to children. Praising and motivating them are recommended.
Ellen Peters
" 'Never' say never" I like it......Never say never (Never, never) Yeah, yeah
See I never thought that I could walk through fire. I never thought that I could take the burn. I never had the strength to take it higher. Until I reached the point of no return. And there's just no turning back. When your heart's under attack. Gonna give everything I have. It's my destiny. I will never say never! (I will fight). I will fight till forever! (Make it right). Whenever you knock me down. I will not stay on the ground. Pick it up. Pick it up. Pick it up. Pick it up, up, up. And never say never. Ne-never say never (never) Ne-never say never (never) Ne-never say never (never) I never thought that I could feel this power I never thought that I could feel this free I'm strong enough to climb the highest tower And I'm fast enough to run across the sea And there's just no turning back When your heart's under attack Gonna give everything I have 'Cause this is my destiny I will never say never! (I will fight) I will fight till forever! (Make it right) Whenever you knock me down I will not stay on the ground Pick it up Pick it up Pick it up Pick it up, up, up And never say never Here we go! Guess who? Jsmith and JB! (Uh-huh!) I gotcha little bro I can handle him Hold up, aight? I can handle him Now he's bigger than me Taller than me And he's older than me And stronger than me And his arms a little bit longer than me But he ain't on a JB song with me! I be trying to chill They be trying to sour the thrill No pun intended, was raised by the power of Will Like Luke with the force, if push comes to shove Like Kobe in the 4th, ice water with blood I gotta be the best, and yes We're the flyest Like David and Goliath I conquered the giant So now I got the world in my hand I was born from two stars So the moon's where I land (I'm gone!) I will never say never (never say it, never, never say it) I will fight I will fight till forever (okay, okay) to make it right Whenever you knock me down I will not stay on the ground Pick it up Pick it up Pick it up Pick it up, up, up And never say never Say never (never say it, never say it) Say never (okay, okay) Whenever you knock me down I will not stay on the ground Pick it up Pick it up Pick it up, Pick it up, up, up And never say never Ne-never say never (never say it) Ne-never say never (never say it) Ne-never say never (never say it) And never say never Ne-never say never (never say it) Ne-never say never (no, nope, never say it) Ne-never say never
And never say neverSongwriters:
Thaddis Harrell / Omarr Rambert / Nasri Atweh / Adam Messinger / Justin Bieber / Jaden Smith
Never Say Never (Single Version) lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
I think that swearing in the family causes a lot of damages. Bad words reflect disrespect which can be also achieved by pointing out someone's physical features.
Thank you Adam Sulich for adding your insight into this important discussion.
Dear Mohamel Kernal,
As I psychologist, I think that all the words that have a negative meaning, such as idiot, stupid, and so on, should be avoided in the family. In contradistinction, good words, such as nice, wonderful and the like, should be often used. It worth mentioning that parents are good or bad models for their children mainly because there are many affective bonds between children and their parents.
KInd regards.
Orlando
I am 66 and a grandfather of three, ages 9, 7, and 3. I find it amusing how words such as stupid, dumb and idiot are now forbidden. Certainly parents should not call their children negative things. Yet apparently I can't even say, of myself, things like, "That was a dumb move," or of a third person, outside the family, who clearly deserves the title (think Trump) "That guy is an idiot." As a joke I often turn to my two older grandchildren after saying something harmless and then asking them, "Oh my, was that a forbidden swear word?!?" Hopefully they will learn to decide for themselves, by applying their own reasonable values and taking into account the context, what is and is not acceptable, rather than blindly following blanket rules.
Since my main clinical and research area is eating disorders, I would like to share my opinions based on my experience in this field.
Comments and teasing about weight and body shape by family members can increase the risk for body dissatisfaction, eating disorders, obesity and other psychological problems particularly in children and adolescents.
Examples:
“If you continue to eat these candies, you will be fat and nobody will love you.”
“Did you gained some weight?”
Also, fat talk which is shortly defined as a form of ritualized derogatory talk focusing on body shape and weight can be really harmful.
Examples:
“I plan to start dieting. Do you want to join me?”
“I hate that my hips are not thin enough”
Given many negative consequences, it is really important that we should avoid using negative language about body shape and weight.
I am following with respect. Thankful Lubaba Yemer , Manesha Soorajee , Başak İnce and off-course other well versed and candid researchers for sharing their great insights.
hi..One of the most important successes in work and life, which also makes sense of happiness, is the right and professional behavior of others.
We all make a mistake. It will come as a whole when we say sentences that upset others. Or words that are misplaced and mislead. We often realize that we are wrong, sometimes even emptying our anger.
thank you
Words can be the unkindest of weapons; equally, they can be liberating if they are used to reinforce the positive qualities that we want to see in our children as they emerge into caring adults. Where the parent or caregiver lacks those qualities, the community has to fall in.
Sajda Taha Mahmood Very honest and sincere response.. I more than agree with you.. We have to be very careful while choosing words against each other not just as parents but as friends, colleagues, teachers.. We should maintain some maturity while displaying our displeasure of any sort.. Its better to be quiet as "No response is the Best response"..
I think in general, you should avoid negative criticism ...
Don't say those words that make them lose their self-confidence
