Is sex drive about our motivation to reproduce or to experience orgasm? Is it logical to use the expression 'sexual desire' for women's less obvious amenability to sexual activity?
We due respect, I think that this is not the proper space to raise questions that belong to one's sphere of personal jurisdiction. Because of this I feel no obligation to answer this question. Sorry.
So why did you answer? My area of professional expertise is research into female sexual response. Where do you think a researcher can discuss issues that arise in long-term relationships and between couples in their sex lives?
Jane, your questions are genuinely valid here and can, I hope, provide some clues to the subject. I wish women would participate as indeed it has usually meant male views and experiences dominating over female ones.
Although in human prehistory penises figure in the symbolism found, vaginal regions often dominate expressing for me the growing ideology of domestication within human societies.
Thanks Richard for commenting! Men walk away from sex fancy free. Women are left with the responsibilities that are a consequence of the sexual interaction that men need. This is a major difference between the sexes. Some men are only interested in a vagina to ejaculate into, which is the natural biological precedent. Women have a much more conscious choice to allow a man to take pleasure from their body. This is the issue of consent that men find difficult to accept. Promotion of female orgasm also works against the fact that women should have a choice. Typically it is men who are pushing for sexual contact & women who are abstaining.