According to GR, gravity is not just a force, or even a force, but a part of the fundamental structure of reality and its fabric of existence or more technically the causal structure of (4D) spacetime.
This position is one of the main assumptions of GR. No other fruitful implemenration of this assumption or variation has been posited i.e Vacuum and EM background structure part.
The second postulste is the role of gravity as the defining role for this structure. Again no other role has been posited for gravity on this general position or assumption i.e that it amplifies this structure or that it realizes it etc. The role is just forc redefining it on the assumption of being at the same time a foundational element of it and the only one with this power.
Given the above, it is rational to asssume the so-called unification of 4 forces is impossible because the other forces are incompatible with gravity because gravity defines the game play so such a foundational player cannot be on the same level or physical real with the other to be unified, a process that requires uniformity in traits and hierarchical standings.