I would be grateful if you can find any woman (even one) who understands sexual response. They have no idea that arousal is caused when the brain responds to erotic stimuli. Kinsey noted that women often stimulate themselves without ever achieving orgasm, which is incredible but I have concluded the same. I have not found one woman who can explain how she achieves arousal. Most also refuse to comment on the anatomy involved in female orgasm. Not a sign that women regularly enjoy orgasm. Equally men are completely ignorant of how a responsive woman achieves orgasm. Certainly female orgasm is nothing like as common as male orgasm. Otherwise no one would refer to it. Just as no one refers to male orgasm.