Kirk Aanes must have been kind for Mulan (his ex) to speak well of him. "Just learned of the passing of Kirk Aanes. My condolences to his famiy and loved ones. He was a good soul. RIP, dear one"( https://twitter.com/MingNa/status/431264318701584384?s=19 ).
Adding to my case: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/381483753_Honor_Kirk_Aanes