In my original qualitative research into 'Living with faecal incontinence' I looked at the 'insider's' view of living with this condition. This was a perspective understood by having experienced faecal incontinence, which could facilitate dialogue between people who found that they had had this in common; they did not feel stigmatised by talking about it and give advice of how they had coped. I am writing up a ten year follow-up, and found that even when people had similar ‘insider’ experience, homophily was also helpful (i.e. having other similarities to the other person). I cannot find much publicised data linking the two concepts. Thank you for any help you could give me.