I read last year an article, that said "non-violent communication is a psychological terror". This is not my field, but I have found those with beliefs of compassion are often shunned or discriminated against, as well as taken advantage of. There is the question of ego, and the question of greed, to consider... what is the intent of generosity? Some cultures believe it is a gift to allow someone to be generous while others think you are trying to manipulate them. You ask a very good question.