For emotional scale for children at the outset it becomes the responsibility of parents to take care of their children which early parent used to do .Male members remain busy in his professional ,career , & his social standing while female members use to spend their time in their friends group,social club & other activities & presently female members are also besides the housewife have established their life in their professional career .
To me emotional regulation scale can have his standing for which a certain format to be framed for the parents & to feel the same directly by the parents . This may help to formulate emotion regulation scale .
Kendall and Wilcox (1979) Self Control Rating Scale may be of use to you. It is completed by an adult. We used the child self-report version here (also listed here are some measures on aggression, pro-social behaviour, worry and life satisfaction:Method Positive Action Updated Protocol