Many of the annual and biannual conferences I attend have grown rapidly in size (and cost) over the past decade, such as the American Geophysical Union (now about 20000 participants) and the Goldschmidt conference for geochemistry (about 5000 participants). Most people go to conferences to learn the latest advances in their field and for networking. I find these things are optimal at conferences with 500-2000 participants. More than that and I find myself missing out on content and social interactions because there is just too much to see and do, even if I use the social media and online apps provided by the conferences. Am I just being old-fashioned, or do you agree that there is a size above which conferences become less effective and therefore less desirable to attend, especially when travel is expensive and/or cumbersome? How do we convey to the organizers that bigger is not always better?