During the treatment of the gauge transformations for showing the A(r,t) in the context of Goeppert-Mayer gauge; it is expressed as the difference between the two transverse gauges vector potentials for the light-atom interaction picture, and when we go to derive the Hamiltonian for longer wavelength of the radiation field compared to the average size of the atom, we invoke the long-wavelength approximation which kills the GM gauge vector potential, i.e. the two potentials are equal. Why is that? and how can i derive explicitly this equality for long wavelengths?