All these boasts, by men and women, about female orgasm hide the fact that no one ever discusses women's enjoyment of eroticism and their own erotic arousal as men do. It's as if female orgasm is supposed to replace all the pleasure men enjoy from intercourse. Men do not talk about their own orgasm because it ends their abililty to enjoy intercourse. Orgasm is not key to male satisfaction so why is it supposed to be key to women's sexual satisfaction? It seems to be a token of female appreciation for male lovemaking. Research indicates that orgasm claims make no difference to women's enjoyment of intercourse or their enthusiasm for it. The hype is just a massive hoax that allows women to enhance their attractiveness and reassures men that women want intercourse as much as they do. None of this helps men understand that women's amenability to intercourse depends on EMOTIONAL factors rather than erotic ones.