Hmm, this is an excellent question!

Thanks Sanja for commenting! Women tend to be hugely offended by any sexual references. They feel threatened by men's sexual urges and they are not aroused, as men are, by sexual content. Even though my content is educational and intended for adults and teenagers, I am not permitted to post my content on most social media. Only twitter allows sexual content. But I also have my website - nosper.com - where I publish all my work and quotations from others who agree with my conclusions.

I absolutely support this concern, both as a researcher and a clinician. Two reputable sources I can share are as follows:

1. The Psychology of Human Sexuality, 3rd edition (2023), by Justin Lehmiller; and

2. The Normal Bar: The Surprising Secrets of Happy Couples and What They Reveal About Creating a New Normal in Your Relationship (2013), by Chrisanna Northrup, Pepper Schwartz, and James Witte.

I hope these are helpful!

Tobias Ryan

tobiasryan.com

its considered a natural and self driven system for males, unfortunately we had women who were attending such sessions according to different cultures. The issues of human rights condemned that and it has since been abandoned

Thanks Tobias for your suggestions. I do not believe anyone specifies how orgasm is achieved. A man certainly can have no idea what female sexuality is about because most women are not responsive at all in any circumstances. Everyone has ignored the research done by Kinsey and Hite, who asked women what they thought of sex and orgasm. No one can accept their findings - that female orgasm occurs through masturbation alone and that women are much less sexually active than men on average. Until sexologists can accept or investigate the research that has been done, all we will have is erotic fiction rather than science.

Thanks Elphas for commenting. I have found most women to be hugely offended by any mention of sex. They see sex as a private matter they would rather not discuss. Even female sexologists have refused to discuss sexual response with me. Women cannot explain the orgasms they think they are supposed to have, which have been defined by male fantasies and erotic fiction. Women enjoy the rewards that men offer in return for sex, so they cannot easily be honest about their lack of responsiveness since the myths enhance their attractiveness and give them significant advantages with male support and admiration. There is only bravado and ignornace.