I can explain exactly how I achieve orgasm. I can explain the erotic turn-ons I use for arousal, the specific anatomy involved and the stimulation technique. I have concluded that the erotic fiction about female orgasm does not match reality! The belief (there is no research evidence) that women respond to the stimulation that men provide is more attractive to men (who attribute female orgasm to their own sexual prowess) and to women (who are sexually unresponsive especially with a lover).