It’s not actually assumed that women orgasm as frequently as men do—in fact, research acknowledges a "pleasure gap" where women, particularly in heterosexual contexts, report lower orgasm frequencies than men. This discrepancy often reflects social, psychological, and physiological factors rather than a biological incapacity or hormonal limitation.

Historically, female orgasm has been less understood and often deprioritized in studies of sexual function and pleasure, which were largely male-centered until recent decades. Social expectations and gender norms have also shaped sexual behavior and the openness with which women express and explore their sexuality. While men are more likely to report orgasm in casual encounters, studies show that women tend to orgasm more frequently in long-term, supportive relationships where there is comfort discussing needs and preferences. Additionally, direct clitoral stimulation—a key factor in female orgasm—often goes overlooked in traditional views on sex, which have long emphasized penetration.

The variations in orgasm frequency are less about innate biological factors and more about the structures and norms around sexuality that have historically shaped how women experience and express sexual pleasure.