Luckily it is the same. Take a spherical nanoparticle. In dipole approximation the field outside of it is bj_1(k r)cos theta, where b is unknown. Far from the nanoparticle it is b e^(i kr)/r cos theta. We determine b at the surface where this term is small. And we use it far away where near field is small. Yet, it is the same value.
Optical Cross section: The apparent geometrical size of an object which would absorb the incoming field. Although the nanoparticle is 5 nm but abs. cross section can be 5 times its geometrical size and all this depends on the nature of material, size, shape, environement surrounding it.