Over many years, I have found that only men comment on sexual pleasure and eroticism. Men do not talk of male orgasm because it is inevitable and because it ends their ability to enjoy their arousal. Men talk of erotic turn-ons such as female orgasm because their focus is arousal, not orgasm. A few women boast about orgasm but they avoid any explicit discussion. Male orgasm is clearly not a female erotic turn-on. Women associate eroticism, orgasm & sexual pleasure with male sexuality & pornography. This is a key difference between the sexes.