The hype over female orgasm is so extreme that all logic are lost. The sex toy companies have capitalised on this confusion and ignorance. But they never say that their products give anyone an orgasm. Neither do men use them for orgasm. Men know that once mental arousal is achieved (they have an erection) applying the required stimulation is relatively trivial. But women are believed to have orgasms without ever being mentally aroused. Women themselves assume that romantic factors cause orgasm.