Kinsey concluded that women often engage in sexual activity (both alone and with a lover) without every achieving orgasm. It seemed quite incredible to me at first too but I have concluded that women often masturbate without ever having an orgasm… just as a man stimulates a woman for years without her ever having one either. This explains why no one can explain female sexual response in terms of mental arousal, anatomy and the physcial stimulation technique.
Interesting question. It all boils down to two features: 1- physical compatibility of the bodies (compatibility in the sense that the shape of one stimulates the adequate place (normally clitoris and upper part of the vagina about one third to half distance)
2- emotional connection: a good dialogue and following instructions and suggestions from the female part and and absolute confidence so that the female can relax completely and express her desires and intimate needs. The female needs to know her intimate parts in detail to be able to know what part responds and how
However there is no guarantee that female orgam takes place in the intercourse. Alternatives such as cunnilingus need to be tried.
Intercourse can never cause orgasm for the receiver. To achieve orgasm we must have control of the stimulation, which must continue up to orgasm but preferably not beyond. Have you ever tried to orgasm from emotional connection? It is not possible. Women do not respond to real-world erotic triggers so they do not orgasm with a lover by any means. Physical stimulation is futile without mental arousal. No one can name any female erotic turn-ons with a lover. Responsive women, who masturbate to orgasm, use explicit erotic fantasies to consciously generate arousal.
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