I have never had an orgasm from intercourse or any other sexual activity with a lover. In my thirties, I consulted a clinical psychologist, who told me that there is nothing wrong with me. In fact, he said I was more liberated than most women he meets. When I talked to other sexual therapists about my experience, they told me that my expectations were too high. So if women cannot expect to ever orgasm with a lover, why do sexologists not promote this information to women in the population?