Some women tell me that men are attracted to a woman who can cook. Others tell me that if science allowed men to have babies, they would want to have them as much as women do. Some women think men suffer post-natal depression when they don’t bond with the baby. They don’t realise how worried men can be about the threat to their sex life. Many women don’t understand that men are often looking for sex rather than a relationship. In fact, they don’t seem to appreciate that men want sex at all!