In this society covered by material desires. When many people come to pursue you, many people often subconsciously choose family background and economic strength. Then comes appearance and character. But in my opinion: we must understand that happiness is not achieved by material life alone, and more often we need the company of our partner! After all, companionship is very important. When you are tired, there are always people around you to care about you, which is warmer and more intimate than any wealth!
What other factors do you think are worth discussing?
I think you are totally correct, but I would add the idea of happiness.. does this person make you feel secure, special and happy? Those are important to a longer life.
If someone where pursuing me, I would certainly want to know their reasons. If someone chose to respond to my profile on a dating site, for example, then a conversation would begin with many questions asked and answered. Then a natural progression would be to exchange some form of contact information and take the conversations off-line for more detailed and personal exchanges. Lastly some sort of meeting, in person, to verify what has been said and to 'feel' the other person. Are they easy to laugh, how do they 'touch' you, physically or emotionally. When you stare into their eyes what do you see at their core? Do you feel a heart-to-heart connection. Can you be 'in the moment' with them? First level of intimacy.
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