There are a lot of gravity related discussions on RG in which bosons (gravitons) come up. Yet I know of no way bosons can create curved spacetime, which is a measurable fact in the solar system (Shapiro delay proportional to square of time dilation factor, double light bending, and to a lesser extent extra precession). There are also some other tricks I imagine bosons having trouble with, such as increasing the relative inertia of objects in strong fields (like objects getting stuck at extreme values of time dilation, and of course all objects slowing down in coordinate velocity - not local velocity - due to time dilation), while at the same time the energy of the object is going down, not up, due to the change in gravitational potential. Adding bosons has to make the mass and inertia go up. There is also the problem of universality of the effect (all energy has gravity, there is no "charge" concept).
I probably know more about gravity than QFT, but certainly am not a quantum gravity expert. My understanding is most boson interactions in QFT are momentum based. There may be some "sticky" based interactions such as with the Higgs boson. So I thought I'd start this thread to promote some discussion and understanding, at a general physics level for people who understand the basics of relativity and quantum theory, but below the super-specialty level of strings or quantum loop gravity. The objective is to understand either how a QFT boson theory can produce curved spacetime and the required inertia, time and lightspeed effects, or why it cannot if it cannot, i.e. to amass logic and reasons on both sides. I would ask participants in advance to remain moderate and avoid long repetitive arguments that obscure the thread for later readers. I'd like readers to be able to come in and follow the thought.