The aim of my research is to help other women understand and interpret their sexual experiences. I do this by providing them with explicit details of my own. But often they are offended. They even assume that I am a man because I talk about eroticism and sexual techniques. This is clear evidence that women do not understand how sexual response works. Orgasm is a release of mental (and subsequent physical) arousal that accumulates when the brain responds positively to stimuli of an erotic nature.