Does this thought experiment, and how I think things would progress, represent the understanding of the 'standard model' of the universe? If not, where does it break down?
I am in a satellite, orbiting a planet, which in turn is orbiting a star.
The star is travelling at high speed radially into a super-massive non-rotating black hole (BH). It is so big that there is negligible tidal forces at the Event Horizon (EH).
When the star reaches the EH, my satellite is at local ‘noon’, and motion is toward the star.
Before the star reaches the event horizon, the motion of the planet (and possibly my satellite) will shift from being purely in orbit around the star to being in orbit around the center of mass of the star/BH system. This will induce a measureable tidal effect, due to the mass distribution. We’re moving quickly toward the BH, so the difference in the orbit won’t be noticed for long.
As the star reaches the event horizon, the observable tidal effect is eliminated. We’re still in orbit around the star/BH center of mass, but we can no longer distinguish between the two masses. We feel the gravity of both the star and the rest of the BH, but we can’t ‘see’ them.
As my satellite approaches the EH, I continue in orbit around the planet/star/BH system, even though I can’t see the star. I can see the planet (though it will look funny), and feel the effect of gravity from the planet and the star+BH.
As my heels pass through the EH (I’m going feet first), there are no signals that can go from my heels to my head. Depending on how fuzzy quantum gravity is, the signals may be cut off to some pretty small distances, so that chemical bonds are broken, or atomic bonds, or sub-atomic bonds. In any case, I am going to be rendered into a high-energy soup (at some scale, and thus at some ‘height’). My conjecture is that I’m converted to equal parts matter and energy. No spaghetti for me; I’m smoking hot soup.
Unobservable conjecture:
But that soup still feels the pull of gravity of the star, planet, and BH. Now that I’m inside of the BH, I think I will be able to detect the spatial differences between the masses again. I’ll never see the soup that was the star again, as its world line is being drawn into the BH faster than I am (so it will never release light that will appear in my rearward-facing light cone). But I can feel its gravity – I’m still in orbit around it.
I can ‘see’ the planet when it comes through, too. It too gets rendered to soup, and scatters in all directions. In fact, because of the curvature of space time, that soup occupies most of my rearward facing light cone. As time goes on, it occupies less and less of my rearward light cone, allowing me to see the soup that was other bodies that fell through the EH after I did. They will fall through in pretty much the same manner, creating pretty much the same smear (equal parts matter and energy?) with variations that are dependent on the sharpness of the knife that rendered it (quantum gravity).