Is it empirically proven that there is an actual and not only apparent increase in mass at relative velocity? If that were the case and the moving object was as big as a spacecraft, which of its particles would increase its mass? If the elementary particles that make up the body increase their mass, why does this happen? Especially they are contained in larger groups, in other words they are at rest or their movement and speed does not change with respect to the body that contains them. Quarks, for example, do not change their movement relative to the hadron that contains them. Relative velocity will relate to the body as a whole, not its constituent particles.
And how the mass increases despite the absence of a universal frame of reference, that is, the observer in the moving object can suppose itself as at rest and the other is moving.
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