This issue was on discussion not long ago. It was proposed, that in case of polar products, probably the best is to try to crystallize it out from cold ether, where it has very low solubility. (Hopefully your product has still some.) You can also try chromatography of crude products using etheral solutions. If nothing works you could also think about selective complex formation with TPPO. There are lots of TPPO complexes known (see attachment below). Of course, selectivity should be checked first in this case.
I know that currently you just want to remove the PPh3O from your mixture, and I think that given advice above are good. But if it doesn't succeed, I have heard about supported PPh3, maybe it could help you... ?
I would also recommend triturating the PPh3O out using diethyl ether as stated above. It works very well. If there is any left in the reaction mixture, it should be removed in the chromatography (assuming this is necessary).
I was also having problems with PPh3O and my compound was eluting in 10% MeOH in DCM. I tried a buffer solvent system of 1% Et3N in 40% EtOAc in hexane and it worked great. I got my pure compound. Hope it works for you also. Good luck
Since you mention that your compound is very polar and dissolves only in MeOH+DCM, your job is very easy. Just triturate the solid with DCM in which TPPO is highly soluble!
It depends upon the solubility of your compound and the scale at which it has to be purified. For small scale chromatography would be convenient whereas for large scale a solvent-extraction is efficient. If your compound is soluble in ether, triturate with this solvent. Your product will be in the solvent while TPPO will remain as sparingly soluble solid. If not, remove TPPO by triturating with DCM, which should leave your compound as undissolved solid.
25% MeOH in silica? Unless its a modified silica, more than 5% MeOH starts dissolving silica too. You may have more trouble doing a column with this system.
To remove Triphenyl phosphine oxide from my reaction mixture , concentrate the reaction mixture under vacuum & then treat residual mixture with n-hexane when triphenyl phosphine from the mixture. being less soluble will come out , then filter solid triphenyl phosphine