I think to respect the feelings of the other half is to maintain the most basic limit of our inner secret space. On the basis of not telling the other party, and ensuring that the other party will not be hurt by this deception, this is the space boundary we should clarify. This is not concealment, nor is it deception.
What is more important is that we cannot use the secret space as an excuse to do things that hurt each other, hurt the relationship, or even hurt ourselves.
If you have things in your past or in your mind / heart that may eventually harm the relationship, those things should be discussed during the dating period; certainly, before any true and deep LOVE is created. Beyond that point I think it is no longer possible to avoid hurting someone, possibly deeply. I believe that forgetting to talk about something that perhaps you have even pushed back into your shadow is one thing, outright deception will eventually damage the relationship.
I believe that a few high quality, mature relationships are more significant than many whimsical ones.
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