Looked at through Joiner's IPPT (2005) both suicide completions and attempts involve a belief of being a burden or feeling worthless, a belief of non-belonging or disconnected from those one cares about, an intense desire to die, and an acquired capability for lethal self harm achieved through mental practice of a plan, abuse, experiencing violence, or other factors. The only difference is that in an attempt the outcome, for some reason, was not death. Similarly in O'Connor's Integrated Motivation-Volitional Theory (2011) both attempters and completers presumably experienced a pre-motivational phase, where fixed risk factors and life events may set the stage, and a motivational phase, where ideation is fueled by feelings of entrapment, defeat, or loss, and a volitional stage where a specific plan and means are present and may result in an attempt that may be fatal or not.
Perhaps the difference lies in the forms of suicidality rather than the outcomes? Is it the “chronic suiciders” (Paris 2007), individuals with borderline personality disorder who repeatedly use threats and attempts to manipulate, cope or solve problems without intent to die, who differ from the “acute suiciders” who definitely have intent to die when they make an attempt and who use distinctly lethal means?.