The most important biological factors affecting the nature and frequency of sexual response in the human animal are the hereditary forces which account for the differences between the male and female. (Alfred Kinsey)
Afirmar que pocas mujeres se interesan en las conversaciones sobre sexo, es muy aventurado. Más allá de analizar si las mujeres se excitan o no, hablando de sexo, me parece que se tendría que pensar en el por qué las mujeres no se "interesan" en hablar de sexo y la respuesta la pudiésemos está en la influencia que ejercen las instituciones (religión, educación, familia, etc.) para cooptar los deseos sexuales y la necesidad de expresar libremente (sin ser juzgadas o estigmatizadas) la sexualidad misma, más allá de la función reproductiva.
Te comparto un texto que quizá te pueda apoyar en tu idea. http://dspace.uan.mx:8080/jspui/handle/123456789/2503
I think you are politically biased. You want to suggest that women are interested in sex regardless of any contrary evidence. This is not a scientific approach. A scientist assesses all the evidence and draws conclusions from the whole picture. You have to explain why eroticism is censored in mainstream society when so many men use it as a masturbation aid. It is clearly women who are responsible for censorship of sexual content. You can also clearly see here, that although I am talking primarily about female sexuality, it is almost always men who engage in discussion. Men are much more interested in sexual discussions than women are. Very few women ever comment explicitly on sexual issues. They talk of love, relationships or family but rarely they refer to genitals or sexual response.
Precisamente estoy trabajando en lo que sugieres, estoy sistematizando las entrevistas, aunque los resultados todavía no son definitivos, sí se puede apreciar en las respuestas de las entrevistadas el peso de las estructuras del sistema patriarcal, que definitivamente tiene un componente político, recuerda "lo personal es político", aunque también lo que te comento definitivamente tiene como marco de referencia el aspecto cultural de quienes hablan con nosotras.
I present the research findings of Kinsey, Hite & Basson who all concluded that women have sex to perpetuate an emotional bond. They are rarely interested in orgasm. I believe, like many other researchers, that women mistake orgasm. I have not found a single woman who can talk about sexual response explicitly. They talk about vague emotional feelings with a lover. Some women boast about orgasm but if you ask them detailed questions they are angry or defensive and refuse to answer. Women think they are supposed to have orgasms as men do. Society tells them - as well as sexologists - that they are dysfunctional if they don't have orgasms. This must change if we ever want to know the truth about female sexual response.