We live in an age of fear. The hysterical responses to the coronavirus corroborate a whole range of additional fears: fear of the implications of the Fourth Industrial Revolution, fear of growing older, fear of loneliness, fear of death, fear of an uncertain future. Everybody is affected but there are hardly any meaningful attempts to deal effectively with these fears.

In my theoretical and practical work on Emotional Intelligence, I have learnt that the most effective way of dealing with fear is to face it. Precisely! We must learn to face our fears.

Most people believe that our emotions should not be indulged. But the current hysteria about buying up tons of toilet paper and gallons of hand sanitizer can be explained as an effect of trying to suppress our emotions, particularly our fears. As a result, we are in danger of losing what is most precious: friendships and human connections.

It is high time to think of productive ways of managing our fears: if we learn to admit openly that we are terrified of losing everything that makes life worth living, we can create new ways of connecting with other human beings. As a result, we are able to deal better with the things that worry and frighten us.

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