Sexual ignorance is not limited to male fantasies about women’s sexuality. It also includes women’s denial of men’s sexual needs. Even in this supposed age of information, women tell me that men respond sexually and emotionally as women do. To be fair, men rarely talk about their sexuality. They are never explicit about how they experience sex drive, erotic arousal and orgasm. They are never specific about what these feelings mean to them and how important sex is to them. That needs to change.