Everyone is interested in it but few understand it right. They believe that love comes as a flash, we fell in love and that's all there is to it, as if there were two conflicting categories, the first people fell in love and the second people did not fall in it. So simply. In fact, love is not a constant and constant state. It is not even a "case", but activities - many daily activities that produce so-called love. Long-term love is not an automatic thing; it is something that requires great effort, giving up selfishness, and getting ready to be hurt in feelings and self. However, even if we live in love at this moment, we often do not really know what love is.
You ask the following: "Do I think that love is temporary or permenant?"
As a psychologist I think that this is a difficult-to- answer question. Why is this so? On my views, love could be permanent if it nurtured; but it may also be transient if it is not nurtured. So, love between two human beings may either long endure or be transient. We all know of couples whose love never ends and couples whose love, say, ends shortly after its beginning. I am in favor of a love that long endures. Of course, people also speak of love in relation to God. True believers, I think, love their God forever.
Of course, this is a short answer to your question.
If we take the matter from the side of life, we find that the love of parents and brother is a love that is not emptied and lasting only if we consider it a love for a purpose and a little ego and love of self in the love of the other feeling, but that does not apply and no doubt in the case of love of God and our Messenger is a very special exception The state of permanent love
Everyone is interested in it but few understand it right. They believe that love comes as a flash, we fell in love and that's all there is to it, as if there were two conflicting categories, the first people fell in love and the second people did not fall in it. So simply. In fact, love is not a constant and constant state. It is not even a "case", but activities - many daily activities that produce so-called love. Long-term love is not an automatic thing; it is something that requires great effort, giving up selfishness, and getting ready to be hurt in feelings and self. However, even if we live in love at this moment, we often do not really know what love is.