It is my humble opinion that resolution of any type of conflict is a result of the "two party system, i.e. it take 2 to tangle." As such their exist 2 "independent over arching loops'' that required understanding in order to achieve stability.
In researching the chronic anxiety associated with mental health, the attached "Cup of Love" system of social interactions was produced and may be of help in providing a user approach to question posed. Respectfully, Al Fermelia