Lying is a deliberate attempt to deceive. I do not believe 3 year olds do so intentionally. Some may be led by older children and even adults to believe the action of telling a half-truth is a game or act of emulation based on fantasy, such as a cartoon or comic strip, that is harmless. Jones (2016, p.3) suggests, “According to Lewin’s equation, behavior (as well as development) is a function of the interaction between the person. and the environment (Lewin, 1931)”(Lloyd, 2002., p. 76, sub. 2). The aforementioned suggests parents’ ability to create and sustain environments that are conducive or non-conducive to preferred social learning environments toward high-end probability of expectant behavior. Media can, and continues to, be a tool controlled by parents, not the other way around; as long as one functions from an internal locus of control and maintains direct involvement with offspring (Lloyd, 2002; Rotter & Mulry, 1965).
Reference
Jones, D. (2016). Short Paper: Who Really Teaches Your Kids? Southern New Hampshire University. Retrieved from https://www.researchgate.net/publication/326331002_Who_Really_Teaches_Your_Kids
لا يمكن علميا ونفسيا اتهام الطفل بالكذب في سن اقل من 5-7 سنوات تقريبا على خلاف بين الاطفال حسب النوع والتربية والثقافة والتنشئة الاجتماعية لان هذه المرحلة (الطفولة المبكرة والوسطى ) تتميز بالخيال ولذا يصدق الاطفال الكارتون وتوم وجيري والاسد سمبا ومغامرات الكلبة الشهيرة التي تضبط اللصوص وتبلغ الشرطة وتقودهم لكشف غموض قتل او اختطاف ولا يمكن ابدا وصف الطفل بالكذب الا بعد استقرار الذات او الضمير الذي يسمى خطا الانا العليا وفق التحليل النفسي وفي السنة المطهرة "مروا أولادكم بالصلاة لسبع وأضربوهم على تركها لعشر " والمقصود ليس الضرب المبرح ولكن العقاب على الترك وللعلم فالمؤاخذه على ترك الصلاة الفعلي مع البلوغ
Children are innocent and spontaneity. A child from 2 to 3 years old may deny that he did something or lie to get something. He does not realize yet that lying is wrong, so you should not punish him. You should avoid confronting him and accusing him not to insist on lying, his depends on the surrounding environment and people.
Children can learn to tell lies from an early age, usually by around three years of age. This is when your child starts to realise that you aren’t a mind reader, so he can say things that aren’t true without you always knowing
..If one notices that a 3-year child starts to tell lies, one should not consider the child being too young to be corrected. It has to be brought to his/her awareness that the act is not good, otherwise lying becomes part and parcel of the child's behaviour (which is very bad for the innocent child).
Yes, though the lies may be rudimentary in nature. For example, a toddler may hide it's bottle if it knows it might get it taken away post-meal. In this instance, hiding the bottle is a situational lie, as it indicates the toddler does not have the bottle. The depth and effectiveness of lies at this age are typically very superficial and ineffective. Though, and I say this because I saw you mentioned Freud in an earlier post, this impulse to lie may not always be derived from learned behavior, but rather inferred from innate human thought processes based off of fundamental needs such as Freud's "id" response of attaining physiological sustenance. This fundamental physiological need I'm referring to is the initial necessity in a model composed by Maslow.
Lying is fundamentally about self-preservation, something innate to a developing, healthy, mind. Though if your toddler is lying to you about not having it's bottle, it may be an indication that one need's to feed the child more (as the lie is made to procure sustenance, and the job of the parent is to provide sustenance, so lying about a lack of sustenance may be an indicator of more sustenance being needed)
If your child tells a deliberate lie, the first step is to let him know that lying isn’t OK. Explain why and let your child know that you might not be able to trust him in future.
The next step is to use appropriate consequences. For example, if your child drew on the wall and then lied about it, get her to help you clean it up.