Kinsey talked to thousands of men and women. He found that intercourse frequencies were directly correlated with men’s own sex drive. Regardless of whether a woman thinks she has orgasms or not, she is no more enthusiastic about sex than any other women. Basically, women respond to what men are ready to insist on. So all this political manoeuvring and promotion of female orgasm by men and women makes no difference whatsoever to how much sex men get. It just causes taboo and silences everyone.
The key problem is men's sex drive. Men want sex and are willing to reward women who provide it. Equally women want to have children and engage in loving relationships. So men and women accept the contract implicit within marriage. Men provide the support for a family and women supply the regular sex. It is never explained like that but everyone knows that it is so. This implicit contract between men and women (sex in exchange for love and support) means that no one is willing to discuss the difficulties that arise over the longer term when men stop providing platonic love (caring behaviours) and women stop providing the sex men need.
My dearest teacher Prof. Dr. Zoncita Del Mundo Norman
... Your opinion is very correct... You are truly a global encyclopedia... But in Arab and Islamic countries it is limited, prohibited or embarrassing... I will give you an example from Iraq: In the curriculum there was a book (Biology) for the second intermediate grade in... At the beginning of the eighties of the last century, there was an entire chapter in a biology textbook on a comparison between a woman’s body and a man’s body. It was also a comparison between a woman’s sex and a man’s sex (in terms of sexual anatomy). This chapter was not taught to students... because it was according to social and religious controls. Undesirable... Therefore, this chapter was completely cancelled... This chapter did not touch on sex (intimacy), it only touched on the comparison between a woman’s body and a man’s body.
Dear Jane Elizabeth Thomas ... In Islam, the matter is completely different... Husband and wife keep the secret of their intimate relationship and not reveal it... It is forbidden for a man to reveal what is going on between him and his wife regarding matters of pleasure, and describe the details of that, and what the woman says or says about it. act and the like.”
The Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: (Indeed, among the most evil people in the eyes of God will be in status on the Day of Resurrection. The man leads to his wife, and she leads to him, then Spreading its secret) Narrated by Muslim (1437).
But if the wife is sick (permanent illness), her husband can marry another woman... provided that the first wife agrees to her husband marrying another woman... And if the husband is sick (permanent illness), the wife has the right to request a divorce and separate from him (also by agreement). ), or she stays with him without divorce by her will... These are the laws of Islam, and no Muslim can transgress them.
In the UK we don't have any sex education. In schools they simply tell children the biological facts of how a baby is made. They talk about contraception and sexual disease. The taboo over sex is worldwide. I have not found anyone who is interested in an intellectual discussion of sexuality. My followers tend to keep silent apart from letting me know that what I do is important and even vital to some people - those who are willing to learn.
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