Sex is initiated by a man because the motivation for sexual contact comes from male responses.
Someone has to take the initiative, right? It's possible that evolution initially favored a tendency for sexual initiative to more often come from men, based on women's responses. However, in modern human society, these patterns are no longer universal or fixed. Healthy sexual relationships now involve a dialectic that is based on mutual consent, as well as the desires and boundaries of all involved parties.
Stereotypes associated with rigid gender roles can be psychologically harmful and restrict people's freedom to express their sexuality in ways that are comfortable and maximally satisfying for them
Again it is a man who responds to questions related to female sexuality. Men always seem to have the answers... As men should know, sexual arousal is not a phenomenon that can be easily ignored. Otherwise men would also be able to overlook their regular arousal in the presence of a sexual partner. As a woman, I can tell you that there is no mental arousal for a woman when she is with a lover. Nor is there much physical stimulation from intercourse. In any case, the genitals only respond to stimulation once there is mental arousal. It is the brain that sends blood to the phallus and makes orgasm possible. Male sexual response is explicit but men seem content to accept that women's sexual response is a mysterious entity. It is only mysterious because of all the myths and fantasies that surround it. There is no convincing evidence that women ever orgasm with a lover by any means.
Yes, men always have answers because a person has the right to respond to any question. Your statement sounds too generalized and also completely contradicts the question you asked. There is significant diversity in personal factors in how women experience arousal and achieve orgasm. Moreover, in modern science, it is too simplistic to claim that everything originates from the brain. It's also important to understand that female sexual response is not mysterious for those who know how to engage in quality sex
I am simply asking why is is men's role to define female sexuality. Wouldn't you think it odd if only women commented on male sexuality? I don't know why you think, as a man, that you know the first thing about female orgasm. What erotic turn-ons are involved in causing female mental arousal? What anatomy is involved in female orgasm? What specific technique do women use to achieve orgasm? If you are familiar with female orgasm, these facts should be known to you and millions of others. The fact that no one can answer these questions (that would be easy for a man to answer for himself) indicates the rarity of female orgasm. You are referring to 'quality sex' - what does that mean exactly? The diversity in how women achieve orgasm is because they are sexual passive with a lover. Consequently men stimulate the female anatomy that arouses them. Then men assume that women must orgasm from some of this stimulation that men supply. Hence all the porno orgasm we see promoted as if real women can achieve them. But there are no research findings that indicate that women orgasm through intercourse, cunnilingus or masturbation with a partner. No one can name even one female erotic turn-on with a lover. So if they are not aroused, they are not having orgasms are they? I am talking about REAL women not porno ACTRESSES. You are basing your sexual knowledge on pornography rather than the research findings that clearly indicate that women look for emotional rather than erotic rewards with a lover. Hence the need for dating and romance.