There are many reasons why couples stop having sex. Certainly, part of the problem is men’s refusal to acknowledge the effort women make on their behalf in many areas. But women are also unreasonable in insisting on platonic love but denying men’s need for sexual love. This area in which men lose out, needs to be acknowledged and addressed. Men themselves are too embarrassed to insist on what they need in relationships. Therapists focus on women’s need for platonic love but ignore men’s needs.