It seems to me the problems, which you discusses, have been solved in my co-authored paper "On the Nuclear Coupling of Proton and Electron". Here is the link to a pdf file from my web site http://inerton.kiev.ua/45_proton-electron_coupling.pdf (alternatively, the file can be downloaded from the web site of the journal Article On the Nuclear Coupling of Proton and Electron

). In more detail the problems are considered in my recent book entitled Structure of Space and the Submicroscopic Deterministic Concept of Physics . Here in the link to the flyer for the book: http://inerton.kiev.ua/SS&SDCP.pdf The problems are much deeper than the reduction to a deformation of space-time; this deformation is secondary. The main role play carriers of the interaction between conventional particles, which in my works have been named "inertons".
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