The vaginal orgasm was proposed by a man (Freud). Imagine a woman defining how men should orgasm! The fact that women accept a man defining their sexuality indicates women's lack of experience of orgasm. Some women learn of the clitoris from a male lover. No woman who masturbates to orgasm needs to be told about the role of the clitoris. The fact that educators today promote the clitoris is evidence that most women never find it. Female orgasm is much, much rarer that supposed previously.